Well, I am one
of those who like to boast about myself. I enjoy
speaking to others and boasting about my
achievements. People say I have 'a big mouth',
but I think I have the 'gift of the gab'. My
neighbourhood thinks that I am boastful and
exaggerative, but they forget to realize that I
have the potential of mesmerizing an audience
with my words and make them listen attentively
to whatever I blabber. In brief I think I'll
make a great speaker. After all 'a big mouth'
has to speak some 'big words' that can leave a
deep impact on others.
People often enjoy a spicy menu to a bland
preparation. In a similar manner, people tend to
enjoy my spicy versions on any topic that I
speak about - be it about myself or about some
amazing place that I visited or may be just
gossip. 'Me and my big mouth' always tends to
draw attention, as people show more interest in
other peoples' affairs than their own. Although
at times I speak more than what is required and
'spill the beans' in turn.
As opposed to the general perception that
capability need not be boasted about and that
one should not 'beat the drums' about his/her
achievements; I strongly believe that bragging
at times is a positive quality. It makes you get
noticed and brings one into the much-wanted
limelight. Though you may be brandished as a
'bragger' by the common gentry it does not
really matter as long as people come to know
your real worth and potential. Trying to reach
the platform of fame with the help of 'a big
mouth' can get you into unnecessary trouble as
well. I fell into trouble at times for saying
things that should not have been said or for
exaggerating too much and then getting caught
foolishly in trying to flaunt a display of
knowledge. Despite the negativity, having 'the
gift of the gab' is an effective way to
introduce yourself to others who may not be
aware of your real worth or capabilities
otherwise.
Have you ever attended an interview as a job
applicant? If so, then you must have seen that
how the interviewers ask you to introduce
yourself. Sometimes, they also ask you to speak
about yourself for about five minutes. Do you
belittle yourself on such occasions? Certainly
not! On the contrary, we praise and brag about
ourselves and about our achievements at the
interview. So you see there is no harm in
boasting about oneself, as long as you do it
well!